Why She Can’t Take It ALL!

Posted by Sydni Sugar on Tuesday Jan 8, 2013 Under Advice, Dating, my Thoughts

I’ve always been interested in sex, not just the act but the visual (sight), auditory (sound), gustatory (taste), olfactory (smell) and tactile (touch); which all give way to the sensual aspects making the act of sex whole. Things of interest to me never just leave me wondering but sends me on a quest for truth and evidence and what I found out is that certain shit-talking men are FULL of CRAP! lol But besides that, I discovered that all women are in-fact created equal.

With that said, I, for many years, believed that the depth of a woman’s vagina depended on her height. Believing that I was at a disadvantage for the Mandingos–the men with above average penis size and girth–and for years I shied away from them. Being 4’11.75”, I thought for years that my vagina was not as deep as, say a woman several inches taller than me and felt that I was one of the ones that men spoke of when they talked about certain women not being able to take it all. But now I know better and today, as you read this, so will you!

Posterior half of uterus and upper part of vag...

Posterior half of uterus and upper part of vagina. Figure 1167 from Gray's Anatomy. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

THE COLD HARD FACT OF THE MATTER

All women have a vaginal canal depth of 3-4 inches before stimulation and as they become more aroused their cervix moves up allowing the canal to deepen, making room for the penis.

With this new found information, I’ve come to the conclusion that the men I’ve overheard talking all that shit about some woman that could’t take it all were in all intent and purposes just “not that into YOU”. hahaha It wasn’t the woman at all but the man (in most cases), that either hadn’t taken the time to completely arouse her or she was just going through the motions, so to speak, for one reason or another. You know how the saying goes, “Men are in a relationship for sex and women have sex for a relationship”.

So, if you are a man reading this, do your part Hunny Bunny! Don’t just assume that because she is wetter than Niagara that she is ready, as that may not be the case. Unlike men, that can be ready at a moments notice most if not all women need time, sometimes.

If you care that she is satisfied when all is said and done, take the time to make sure you’ve gotten her to where she needs to be before you go poking and prodding  around in dry dirt.

Until Next Time,

Sydni

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Is Sex a Cure?

Posted by Sydni Sugar on Tuesday Jan 18, 2011 Under Advice, my Thoughts, Perspective
Cowgirl Sex Position, drawing
Image via Wikipedia

Is Sex a Cure?

I fell asleep a few hours ago wishing I had fallen asleep butt-ass-naked, sweaty and dozing in the remnants my lover and me left carelessly on the sheets.

I woke three hours later only to realize that if it had been my reality, not only would I still be asleep but I probably wouldn’t have heard my alarm go off, one hour from now.

So that leads me to my current thought…Is Sex a Cure?

It certainly seems to me that it could be…for a lot of things from insomnia to weightloss.

1- Can’t sleep? Have your lover, her lover or his lover rub you down from head to toe with hot oil then ‘fux the ish’ outta you! If this doesn’t put you to sleep… Something is wrong wit’cho ass! Call your physician immediately.

2- Need to lose 5-10 five pounds? Have a fux fest! Devote a minimum of 2 hours a day for 5 days to working that weight off! No less than 3 positions should be used and it helps if you crank the heat up. Sweat is not only a natural body coolant it’s also one of the body’s ways of detoxing; which helps with weightloss. (Note: in order for this to work you MUST eat in moderation. Sex should be the ONLY thing you’re over indulging in!)

3- Stressed? Is work, home, or life in general getting the best of you?
SEE #1

4- Your man or woman left you?
SEE #2

5- Is your brain foggy, thinking unclear, forgetful, irritable?
SEE #1 or #2 and if one doesn’t work try the other. If neither works call your physician.

If you know of any other symptoms that sex may be the cure for, please leave a comment and instructions below.

Always,
Sydni

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FB Deleted ME!

Posted by Sydni Sugar on Monday Oct 11, 2010 Under In The News, Uncategorized
paris40-musee de lerotisme penis chairs
Image by las.photographs via Flickr

I decide to go to FB from my phone last night and couldn’t get on!

I tried and tried, to no avail!

This morning I receive an e-mail stating that they were removing a picture that I had posted. Okay…

Come to find out THEY DELETED THE ENTIRE ACCOUNT!!!

I got excommunicated for…A PENIS CHAIR! (click to see chair I posted)

The chairs shown is not the chair I posted, but these chairs could really provide a “pick-me-up” for slow days. ijs

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Just a Thought

Posted by Sydni Sugar on Saturday Sep 18, 2010 Under my Thoughts
aimlessly walking
Image by RazzmatazzJaz via Flickr

 

It is a sad & unfortunate soul
that walks aimlessly
insearch of happiness
and doesn’t realize his own riches!

(Note: to be rich does not always reference monitary holdings).

–SS

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