Is Sex a Cure?

Posted by Sydni Sugar on Tuesday Jan 18, 2011 Under Advice, Perspective, my Thoughts
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Is Sex a Cure?

I fell asleep a few hours ago wishing I had fallen asleep butt-ass-naked, sweaty and dozing in the remnants my lover and me left carelessly on the sheets.

I woke three hours later only to realize that if it had been my reality, not only would I still be asleep but I probably wouldn’t have heard my alarm go off, one hour from now.

So that leads me to my current thought…Is Sex a Cure?

It certainly seems to me that it could be…for a lot of things from insomnia to weightloss.

1- Can’t sleep? Have your lover, her lover or his lover rub you down from head to toe with hot oil then ‘fux the ish’ outta you! If this doesn’t put you to sleep… Something is wrong wit’cho ass! Call your physician immediately.

2- Need to lose 5-10 five pounds? Have a fux fest! Devote a minimum of 2 hours a day for 5 days to working that weight off! No less than 3 positions should be used and it helps if you crank the heat up. Sweat is not only a natural body coolant it’s also one of the body’s ways of detoxing; which helps with weightloss. (Note: in order for this to work you MUST eat in moderation. Sex should be the ONLY thing you’re over indulging in!)

3- Stressed? Is work, home, or life in general getting the best of you?
SEE #1

4- Your man or woman left you?
SEE #2

5- Is your brain foggy, thinking unclear, forgetful, irritable?
SEE #1 or #2 and if one doesn’t work try the other. If neither works call your physician.

If you know of any other symptoms that sex may be the cure for, please leave a comment and instructions below.

Always,
Sydni

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Your Digits aren't Just For Dialing!

Posted by Sydni Sugar on Tuesday Aug 24, 2010 Under Advice, Flower Talk, Perspective

Let me start by saying Facebook is as big a part of my life as most other people these days. With that said, I recently saw a comment by a female that claims she doesn’t masterbate! WTF?!

As a person that truly enjoys the act of sex, I try to get as much from it as I can. Experimenting sexually has become a big part of my adult life. I want to find out what works, what works really well and of course, what doesn’t.

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The Multi-Orgasmic Woman

Posted by Sydni Sugar on Wednesday Jun 2, 2010 Under Advice, Flower Talk, Perspective

I was lucky enough to meet two really great guys (at different times of course) that taught me things about myself that I didn’t know previously. One was, that the louder I became the more intense the orgasm and the other that I could be multi-orgasmic.

I’m not sure if it was through chance or circumstance that I had never been very showy in expressing the pleasure I felt during sex but I wasn’t. Perhaps I felt it wasn’t very lady-like to go into screaming convulsions during sex, but whatever the case—I know now…and the knowing has definitely made each orgasm worth it.

Now, the second guy which I spoke of just had it. I don’t know if it was the smell of his cologne, the way he looked at me or the intensity of our kisses but he had me going even before the first orgasm. After the first orgasm…I would have committed a grand crime to have him do what he did again and again…and again.

Needless to say, that break-up was a devastating one! It had taken me all this time (my whole life) to find 1 person to “coerce” Flower into “opening up & letting go”, however would I find a replacement?! Drat’s! But it was then that I decided never to have just one orgasm—ever again!

So instead of searching for that next guy that I hoped and prayed would be able and willing to do what the last one did, I decided to…well…do it myself!

I practiced and practiced, like I was going to try out for the Sex Olympics or something. Lol. It was during this time that I’d remembered what an aunt had told me. She said, “Honey, if you can’t do it for yourself, how can you expect anyone else to?” I hadn’t thought too much of her comment until this very point and she was right!

Some guys just have it, some guys want to have it and study the art and others, unfortunately, have to be taught. So I prepared to teach the next one if I had to.

I turned one into two and three into four—each just as intense and satisfying as the last. Then I met him!

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