Sydni Sugar – Sweet & UNCENSORED

I was lucky enough to meet two really great guys (at different times of course) that taught me things about myself that I didn’t know previously. One was, that the louder I became the more intense the orgasm and the other that I could be multi-orgasmic.

I’m not sure if it was through chance or circumstance that I had never been very showy in expressing the pleasure I felt during sex but I wasn’t. Perhaps I felt it wasn’t very lady-like to go into screaming convulsions during sex, but whatever the case—I know now…and the knowing has definitely made each orgasm worth it.

Now, the second guy which I spoke of just had it. I don’t know if it was the smell of his cologne, the way he looked at me or the intensity of our kisses but he had me going even before the first orgasm. After the first orgasm…I would have committed a grand crime to have him do what he did again and again…and again.

Needless to say, that break-up was a devastating one! It had taken me all this time (my whole life) to find 1 person to “coerce” Flower into “opening up & letting go”, however would I find a replacement?! Drat’s! But it was then that I decided never to have just one orgasm—ever again!

So instead of searching for that next guy that I hoped and prayed would be able and willing to do what the last one did, I decided to…well…do it myself!

I practiced and practiced, like I was going to try out for the Sex Olympics or something. Lol. It was during this time that I’d remembered what an aunt had told me. She said, “Honey, if you can’t do it for yourself, how can you expect anyone else to?” I hadn’t thought too much of her comment until this very point and she was right!

Some guys just have it, some guys want to have it and study the art and others, unfortunately, have to be taught. So I prepared to teach the next one if I had to.

I turned one into two and three into four—each just as intense and satisfying as the last. Then I met him!

We met in the Bay Area of Northern California and he was just my type—smooth dark skin, nice build, nice height and really nice moves; a Johnny Gill-could-be-impersonator–it was love at first site!

He came into my life with a bag full of tricks, ready to work his magic…and work it he did! He had Flower singing opera all hours of the day and night–and in between she was sleeping soundly. But I digress…as usual—sorry, but I like to tell the whole story sometimes. With that said…

There are four major factors in obtaining multiple orgasms.

The intensity of the vibration, the loudness of your moans/noises, your G-Spot & timing!

Here’s what works for me and what may work for you…

Foreplay:

If pheromones are working in your favor then that’s less work for him–his presence will make you hot and bothered all on their own. If not, a massage is the biggest turn on for me! Rub my naked ass and Flower’s nectar starts to pour. Kiss—not gently either—be firm and direct. But again, I digress. For foreplay—you’re on your own (at least for now. I’ll have to discuss that some other time).

• The intensity of the vibration:

When I say the intensity of the vibration, I mean the pressure and speed of his tongue on your vagina. (This isn’t a prerequisite for me unless you don’t know how to get me going otherwise, but don’t get me wrong—I NEVER turn it down). Once he’s got you going with a few slow pressured sensual strokes he needs to speed it up! His tongue needs to be working like the Energizer Bunny on Speed! This action needs to be dead-on your clit, with periodic deep licks into your introitus or vaginal opening (. He can’t be lazy about it and must be steady and continual in his pursuit to bring you to orgasm. Which brings me to…

• Bull’s-eye:

The Bull’s-eye is of course the G-Spot. While he’s on the clit he needs to insert a finger into your vagina and position finger in the “come-here” motion firmly moving back and forth (NOT hard BUT FIRM yet gentle). What happens here is that the G-spot is like the inside Clitoris. It swells and becomes extremely sensitive to touch. Once you’ve found this spot it will be easier to find and stimulate it in the future. But don’t forget about your clit! You need her too! lol The combination of a stimulated G-spot AND clitoris are going to bring you to an orgasm that you have never felt before. Once you feel yourself cumming, don’t be shy! And this brings me to…

• Verbal Expression:

Things I’ve described above will make the feeling some-what intense but that’s what you want! When you feel the moans and yells and screams in the pit of your stomach…LET IT OUT and if you don’t want the neighbors knowing his name use a pillow to scream into (please note: the use of the pillow is temporary and should only be used in spurts to prevent suffication).

• Timing:

Like they say…timing is everything! The key to achieving the feeling previously felt is to go HARD! Once the first orgasm is achieved and the feeling of intensity is too strong to continue STOP! But only for a few seconds—approximately 3-10 seconds—but no more than that or you may lose it. Then he will need to go back at it—same speed and intensity as before. It won’t take long before you feel another orgasm brewing. *Repeat, again and again.

*Please note that having more than 20 orgasms in an hour can induce a coma!!! This information has not been verified but I wouldn’t take any chances.